well im going to stop ranting now, no one likes to hear me ranting.
I do!
Because everything you said is true.
I feel awkward criticizing
Xenonauts, since it was made by such a small studio, they are nice people and everything, plus the game has some kickass ideas like the air combat system and UFO activity (shooting down airliners, strafin warships etc.) plus some ideas that weren't as glamorous but worked well (you don't have to buy rifles for example, you have free and unlimited access to Earth weapons, but only Earth weapons). However, it is lacking in so many regards, mostly very little things like you said, but it adds up to an unsatisfactory end result. It's also lacking basic common sense at places, take for example how sprites are made: each facing, times each body position, times each weapon, times each armour, is a
full separate sprite (which pretty much kills any attempt at modding graphics).
Is it a bad game? No, I don't think so. Is it disappointing? Yes. Is it as good as
OpenXCom? Hell no.