PS:
(and lastly, I will also update native Linux builds from Kubuntu 18.04 to 24.04 if possible... or is there a more popular distro nowadays? I read/heard somewhere something about Kubuntu being 'evil'... as all distros eventually will become in the eyes of the Linux community)
Short Answer:
I think Kubuntu is a good choice to continue with.
Long Answer:
I am not that deep in what the "Linux community" thinks to be "evil". In general I can say that Canonical (Ubuntu) needs to make some money at some point to cover their costs, so they try to commercialize it a bit more. Be it the Ubuntu Software Center (a store), selling professional support (kinda like Red Hat) or becoming relevant for the IoT market (Ubuntu Core). Debian is also seemingly becoming more commercial with the extended LTS (10 years) but it's a service provided by a different project (Freexian). KDE (Kubuntu) got a bit bad reputation for eating a lot of resources and not managing to get a stable environment while communicating badly a few years ago. No clue what's it like now.
I personally like Xfce as a desktop environment and use Xubuntu for ease of use. I personally don't like Unity (desktop environment, not the game engine), that's why I don't use Ubuntu. There is also Linux Mint which is ok. It's very popular for people starting out with Linux. For one of my old Thinkpads I am using Zorin OS but that's becoming slow too. Fedora and OpenSUSE I tried ages ago.
Ubuntu is also used a lot for docker containers (f. ex. in github workflows). For a server VM I would probably use anything that has
apt like Debian or some kind of Ubuntu LTS with your favorite desktop environment and its applications. I would definitely NOT use anything that is a rolling release (Arch, Manjaro). Manjaro managed to corrupt my boot partition a few times. You can probably use Kubuntu as it's always beneficial that you are familiar with it and the KDE devs seem to have managed to make it stable.