- A primary the source of this problem is a combination of poor communication and rudeness, most of which can be safely blamed on one specific user of Hobbes's work. But not all of it, unfortunately. Hobbes's reaction was and continues to be over the top and in poor form. And I don't really see anything changing if, hypothetically, the modder was polite, argued for donations being harmless or perhaps proposing to share them, etc.
If the donations are so harmless, why they didn't remove them instead? I gave the option and he refused.
Why doesn't he remove them now? The whole issue could be solved quickly. Instead, they choose continuing with donations.
Who's being exactly over the top and in poor form?
AFAICT Hobbes would still have gone into 'I'll take my toys and go home' mode.
Did I leave the site and delete everything and said f*** u* to everyone?
Given that he's a long-standing member of the community, a moderator and someone who occasionally tries to set standards, that's not a good precedent. SupSuper recently threatened to ban some users for relatively minor squabbling (aka the 'don't be a jerk' rule). What's going on here is full-blown drama initiated by a moderator.
Except for moderating the section of the site dealing with Area 51, I'm not a moderator anywhere else. So complaints about moderation should be taken elsewhere, because they don't belong here.
- to change the behaviour of others (this has, obviously, failed or at least backfired to a significant degree),
- to influence others' opinion of oneself (that's a net loss, if this thread is any indication),
- to make yourself feel good about your work and its usage (TP is being stripped down and getting less used in the future, so ...).
Your opinion, and I disagree in all points. For all I know, you know zip about me, except for what's been happening lately. So consider that before you even try to analyze me.
What is the problem with donations, exactly? I'm also generally ill-disposed towards modders making money from their work, but for a completely practical reason: it encourages 'copyrighting' mods, hoarding and not sharing your work, cliques, drama and squabbling, all of which significantly damage any modding scene. Witness e.g. Bethesda's 'paid Skyrim mods' debacle. What was Hobbes's solution to donations? Diving head-first into the same kind of behaviour.
I have no knowledge of this situation and I don't need to.
Someone had behavior towards me that my personal values say it's abusive, by deciding to ask for donations after they've used my work and never asking permission for it. I told them to stop. They refused. Consequences followed immediately on my part until the abusive behavior stops.
That's how I am in real life towards any kind of abusive behavior, towards me or others. I agree with you that I can be direct and harsh, but I also can be very diplomatic. I tried diplomacy first. It failed.
The only truly positive effect of such 'enforcement' is preventing people from claiming someone else's work as their own. That was never the issue here.
And what exactly do you think it means when someone decides to take your work and use it for commercial proposes?
That person is claiming it as its own to make money![/list][/list]